Quick rant

As you know, Rob and I are planning on going to Florida next month. One of his friends is getting married. We are going to see his friends and family and while this is mostly his trip, I'm excited about it. However, I think he is forgetting that it is my trip too. I am taking time off of work for this and paying for half of the gas as well as using my car. Anyway, all of that doesn't matter but it is still my trip too. So last night I decided that it would be nice if we could stop in Tennessee where a friend of mine lives. I haven't seen this friend in probably at least two or three years and no clue when I will get to see her again. We are going right by where she lives so I thought it might be a good idea to stop and see her for a half hour or so. I mentioned this to Rob and he said that he didn't want to cut into time spent with his friends. I see his point but I feel that he is being a little selfish. I know he moved away from his friends and family and doesn't get to see them very often. It has been two years since he has seen them. However, I haven't seen this friend in at least that amount of time. I'm not asking to spend the day with her! I know there is the possibility that it won't work out with timing but I feel like he doesn't want to even try to make it work somehow. I miss this friend like crazy. She was one of my closest friends in high school. I really would like to see her. I just don't know why he is being selfish about this.